A few weeks ago this was an ugly place. All I could find the energy to write about was painful introspection as I re-evaluated where I was in the Universe, how I got there, and what I was going to have to do if I decided I wanted to move to a different Spiral Arm of the Milky Way. Introspection is a messy process, and at least one of my friends thinks I’m crazy for being public about it. He may be right. I may be crazy. I might just be living an 80′s Billy Joel song. 
So, after all that messy introspection, which has been taken off-line now that the rough spots are for the most part passed, I felt like I should let my friends know how I’m doing.
- I’ve abandoned Polyamory as a relationship style. It wasn’t fulfilling my particular relationship needs.
- I am going back to by birth name: Christopher Lee O’Halloran
- Mel and I are back together, better than ever before; and are in fact engaged to be married on January 12th.
I am sure I am leaving a few things out, but I have been putting this off long enough, and I just want to get something posted. For more information about Mel & I’s engagement, visit http://www.hausboheme.org/
-Chris
Congratulations on all counts. I am happy for you. If I can do anything to help, let me know.
Kelly
Better late than never! Congratulations to you and Mel; a long and very happy life together!